As a Calvinist at ND…
I enjoyed this quote from an essay by Robert Taft (the Jesuit, not the legendary conservative senator):
[Ecumenism] seeks to put the best interpretation on what the other does and says, to shine the exposing light of criticism evenly, on the failings of one’s own church as well as on those of others. In short, it seeks to move Christian love into the realm of scholarship, and it is the implacable enemy of all forms of bigotry, intolerance, unfairness, selective reporting, and oblique comparisons that contrast the unrealized ideal of one’s own church with the less-than-ideal reality of someone else’s.
